How many of us have 'Come Out' about our interest Wetting?

[Holly]

Hiya,

I was wondering how many of us on this board have 'come out' in some small way about this funny little interest we have.

Actually even posting on this board is 'coming out' in some way. I used to get really nervous everytime time I posted. That in itself was a big thing for me. 18 months ago it was my secret and mine alone. And then I discovered this on the internet.

Now it's all different. I have a friend who's into this as well but we live a long way apart from each other. I've admitted at work that I wet myself in the shower. Yet I've never admitted it to my girlfriends, my boyfriend or my family. And to be honest, I don't think I ever will!

Freinds know I have trouble reaching the toilet on time and have the occaissional accident. At work they even made a joke about a stain on the seat haha. It wasn't me....really images/smiles/icon_wink.gif But no one knows that I actually enjoy wetting myself in private and now and again if I'm really daring (my god that is a thrill!) in public but also in secret, if you know what I mean.

Anyway I just wondered how many of us think that we have 'come out' of the WC (or the shower in my case images/smiles/icon_wink.gif ) and admitted this to someone in some small way. And in what way have we 'come out'? Or how many of us think that simply writing on the Internet is far as we will ever go.

Take care

Holly x images/smiles/icon_smile.gif images/smiles/icon_smile.gif images/smiles/icon_rolleyes.gif

[morten]

Hi Holly!

Its not an easy thing to do, to commit what we like or feel for another persons. We are afraid of gettin in trouble if all we know is laughin at us!

I got out of the closet a bit, when i told my girlfriend that i liked to see girls getting desperate for a pee pee. Shes also found some offline pictures in my computer when i was on a little trip with some friends! I can get her to pee her pants for me!

You may ask some questions if you want everyone!

Hope to hear from you again Holly!

Morten

[Larry Lamb]

Two ex-girlfriends of mine (the one who wet herself for me and one other) both know that I enjoy the wet side of life, and it neither bothers me that they know nor do I think they think it that strange, being openminded lasses as they are. But I know what you mean, it is hard to imagine many other people knowing about it, but then how many other people know much about people's bedroom (and bathroom) practices anyway?

Morning!

[Seaping]

Well if you have read my post...I have now told about 3 or 4 women about it, I would never tell a guy I don't think. All women I've told have been ones that I ahve known intimately and felt that I knew their personalities well enough to judge that they wouldn't freak out and call me sick. On the whole the reactions were ok, except the last one who's being very positive about it (see my post). Out of the others I have managed to get my hand peed on a few times while mastabating..which they were then amazed how quickly I came..so hence saw how much it turned me on..

As yet I haven't had any women admit they like it to me but I would imagine that is not uncommon

Seap.

[Holly]

Hiya Morten, Larry, Seap.

Reading your replies makes me think that I might beable to tell my boyfriend one day. Like I could ask him to do it in the shower with me. What if i was to step into the shower with him with my knickers or off and have a little 'accident'. At the moment I'd be to scared in case he thought it was gross!

A couple of years ago I was on holiday with a girlfriend and we walking along these steep cliffs. We both actually saw a couple snogging right by the edge of the cliff well of the footpath. Then he stood behind her and one of them was weeing on the other because we could her the splashing. I think it was the girl, because minutes later she squatted down.

I'll send you a private later on this wekend Morten but I think we would all love to hear more if you don't mind telling on the board.

I actually did read your post Seap so welcome to the board images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

Take Care

Holly x

[Seaping]

why don't you try gettin caught short in front of your bf, and keep a really close eye on where he is looking.. that will give you a bloody good idea on what he thinks about it..It my opionion that there are a hell of a lot of guys that love to see a girl wet herself.

A while ago a bunch of us were talking about embarrasing moments, one of the guys said that he interupted a girl on the toilet in mid stream, one of the other guys in the group who was next to me said very quitely, shit I'd have loved to have seen that, her pissing and everything..that made me think a bit....Mmmmm not alone here then

[parkvilla]

Hi Holly.

I once asked a close g/f when I was about 18 if she'd wet her pants for me - although she said she would, she never did and we eventually split. I "came out" to my wife about five years ago and whilst she acknowledges my love of pants wetting, has yet to really share in it (though I think our first child was concieved while I was wearing wet pants!).

Sharing pants wetting with wifey remains my life goal! If you want to share with your b/f, I suggest you try something "accidental" to test his reaction, though if you look back at PissyMrs. experiences with her hubby, it might not necessarily be succesful.

For me, one of the sexiest things to see is desperation, followed by pants wetting - shorts being my favourite!. You could always try getting both of you a bit drunk beforehand to loosen up, need to go more and then wet your pants (maybe in bed). You could then use the alcohol to play it down afterwards if he doesn't like it!

Best of luck.

[boatman2]

Camping, everyone dressed so it doesn't matter what gets wet and then a lot of larking around ending or perhaps starting with an accident or if you've all(3or more) had a drink or two maybe as a dare. The younger you are the more likely it is that others might be encouraged to join in.
As for public confession as if you were enbarrassed by it that must ensure that no-one accepts it. If it isn't fun its not worth coming out.

[Anonymous]

I have been into seeing women wet themselves for a long time. I rarely post, but I do lurk daily. I have told several of the women I have dated and several of them have wet their pants for me. I usual;ly break the ice after I feel we have been intimate enough. However there was one woman that the night I met her we went home together. We began kissing and foundling on my back paddio. It was summer and quiet hot(I live in the deep south) anyway, we were still clothed. She was wearing a pair of tan pants. we were both a little drunk and I was completely throbbing. She told me she needed a bathroom break. I asked her to wet her pants and she smiled and asked if I liked that. I told her it would completely get me off. She did it, she sat on my lap and soaked her pants and mine as well. Needless to say this lead us into some very great sex. I later asked her if she minded doing this for me. She said she liked a man that knows what he likes.
She was not into wetting persay, but she enjoyed getting me aroused and there were several more times that she wet herself. We have since split, but are still friends.
I used to worry about the past girlfriends telling their friends. I live in a fairly small town. Then it occurred to me that i did not care and actually hoped thay did tell their other girlfriends. I t has been my experience that most people will not out right approach you about this little fetish, but the ones that are into it will definately let you know in a subtle way, at least that has been my experience. Well until the next time have a good one.

[Holly]

Hiya,

Thanks SPV, boatman and II for your replies.

I going to make a guess that of all the people who reply to this thread, the majority have found some way to tell some one. I don't think it's possible to keep these things secret for long. Especially if you're already posting on a board like this.

My boyfriend has seen me have two accidents and both times he's been very concerned but I don't think he was turned on. It doesn't matter too much to me but it would be nice if he found out about my little kink one day. Anyway we'll see. I don't want to spoil things images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

So what do other people think? Is there anyone who hasn't told anyone other than by posting on this site? And come on the other girls on this board. Are we the same. I kept it to myself for years!!

Take Care

Holly x images/smiles/icon_smile.gif images/smiles/icon_rolleyes.gif

[Anonymous]

I would be interested to know other people's experiences of coming out to someone who is not a sexual partner.

In my twenties I half came out to three people. By "half" came out I mean that I told them that I was turned on by the thought of a woman peeing or wetting herself but did not own up to enjoying wetting myself (something I had been doing since my early teens).

The first was a close female friend (not a sexual partner) who surprised me by saying that quite a lot of women (but not herself) did enjoy wetting themselves. The second was a male friend who also said that, while not sharing this fetish, he believed that quite a number of other men did. The third came out of a conversation with my older sister wo totally astounded me by telling me that she shared the same fascination which led to an interesting speculation on mutual origins.

There my coming out stopped until about five years ago when, in a long all night conversation with a man who I have known for about thirty years, we seemed to come to an unplanned decision to share our deepest sexual secrets. Over the course of this night I shared my fascination with female knicker wetting and eventually got on to discussing my own love of wetting and the way in which it has becom, for me, an alternative orgasm. In return my friend started to discuss his fascination for the dominatrix and his own identity as a male sub.

So now I have at least one outlet to explore in depth what this fetish is all about with someone I know and trust. I value that enormously as I do also the opportunity to explore a fetish that is not mine.

[Phil]

Hi Holly, as you know I'm into the ladies wetting, and whilst I have dropped many hints to my girlfriend and even once tried to set up a situation where she would either have to go in the bushes (with my help to hold her dress away)or acctually have an accident, which didnt work.
The only contact I have had with anyone is on here, and as you say that is a little bit 'coming out'. I would join in with someong given the oppertunity as it would be only fair if she was wetting for me, then I should for her if she would like me too.
The likelyhood of it ever happening is about zero, but I have fun with pals on here images/smiles/icon_smile.gif images/smiles/icon_smile.gif images/smiles/icon_biggrin.gif

[Seaping]

It's great to feel you're not alone eh?

[Anonymous]

hi holly,
great question!

ive been into female desperation and accidents from a very early age, even before i was turned on by sexy girls (like yourself), but since i have got older i have always felt pretty shameful of myself for taking sexual pleasure in someones obvious discomfort and ultimate humilliation. but im affraid my driving force was, and always will over ride my feelings of shame. as paul at wetset said in FHM "by wetting herself a girl is more vunerable and so sexier" (or somthing like that)i agree with that!
it doesn't make me want to rape her, or tell her off, or punish her in any way! i just want to comfort her and take her away from the shame and s******s. maybe my idea is that:- the best way to a girls heart is through protecting her (old fashiond i know) and maybe she will see i'm not like all those Bs that were taking the piss out of her!
sorry to babble on but now let me answer your question.
i never used to admit my interest in this until i got serious with a girl. but when i did i figured it only fair that she knew what i liked, and what i was like! luckily, and extaticly to my delight, although not into it themselves, my ex and my now partner were, and are,(respectivly) willing participants (or should that be "willing par pissy pants?") in this fantisy.
i speak to my partner all the time about this subject and worrie that, because she is not into it she will get board, but i also think if i had kept these shameful feelings hidden we would never have had the fun we have had together.
i think if i was going to spend the rest of my life with someone then they need to know what kinks i carry aswell! shy or not (if its such a turn on, as it is for me) you have to tell your b/f!, only if you are serious about him though!
not your family though!, that would be aukward!,and why would you want to tell your family anyway? no gain there!
18 months ago? yes thats when i descovered the delights of the internet, and yes i have "come out" more since then, it makes me feel not alone! i seem to be able to talk more openly about my desires, albiet in a jokey way (as i said she is not into it! but will induldge to please me!) that makes it easyer to talk about!
just a couple of Qs for u holly before i go
r u serious with this b/f
u havn't realy considered telling your famly have u?
and finaly when did u actualy feel totaly ashamed and totaly humilliated by a conplete "accident"?


great question!

[Matt]

HMMMMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!

Good question, Holly!!!

I personally have told two people. A friend of mine, whilst we were on the subject of "fetishes" one day, and also a friend of mine at my local pub (needless to say, I was drunk at the time!!!!)!!!

I think my (1st) friend is actually slightly turned on by it himself, but I'm not quite sure.... Our conversations can be pretty diverse at times - must ask him next time I see him!!!!

Regards, and love!!!

Matt images/smiles/icon_biggrin.gif (now fully recovered, I might add!)

[Finesse]

Hi!

Wow, I did not know so many people have told others. I have not told anybody what I like and I wont either. I dont see a reason for my family or my friends to know.

For my partner, there is a reason of course, but I still wont tell. Maybe if I got into a really serious relationship, and I mean like a really serious one, then maybe I would tell. Well, I would not exactly tell, but I think I would stage and accident and see how the reaction would be and after that think about telling or not. But even if my partner would react nice to the accident dont mean the reaction would be the same when I tell I likes it, and does it on purpose, since that is totally different. I mean an accident would be an accident but on purpose?

But my opinion right now is that it is my secret and I will not share it with anybody, except on the internet of course images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

Hugs
Finesse

[WT]

Hi Holly,

You've chivvied me by e-mail into replying and Hotmail is currently dead, so I can't tell whether you surfaced before midday after your Christmas dinner last night!

As you know, I've already answered this and more by e-mail to you and I don't want to put the details of my relationship with my girlfried on the Board. So, I'll summarise and re-arrange into chronological order...

I didn't realise it at the time, but I think my Dad was into women wetting their panties. Before he died, he had a long conversation with me about women and sex but, unfortunately, I was a year or two too young to take it in at the time. The grim reaper gave us no choice in the timing. Anyway, he mentioned one or two things that one should condsider doing while making love to a lady that, with 20-20 hindsight, can definitely be viewed as trying to make her pee as well as excite her. And, in that light, his comments at the time about "making her wet" can be viewed two ways! One final clue: I know that, certainly after she had me, my Mum had quite a weak bladder. So when I was a kid, Mum and Dad could have been having all sorts of fun!!! images/smiles/icon_wink.gif

Now on to my experiences. I first experimented at university. I had got the idea ealier, in my teens, but had no way of making it happen! But this was a private thing, in my room at uni. I didn't dare raise the subject with any ladies!!! images/smiles/icon_eek.gif

My first serious relationship was with a straight-laced young lady (we were about 22), who didn't ever go beyond the missionary position. But I loved her - foolish I know! images/smiles/icon_confused.gif So I certainly didn't raise the subject in the years we were together.

My second long-term relationship was much more satisfying physically images/smiles/icon_wink.gif but only lasted about a year. She was into quite a few things but I didn't ever dare raise the subject and I now regret this - we live and learn. images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

With my current (lovely) girlfriend, we talked about our fetishes before we even got together!!! images/smiles/icon_eek.gif It was a drunken converstaion one Christmas shortly before we started going out together! But... she's not interested in watersports! images/smiles/icon_sad.gif She does do plenty of other naughty things though...

Finally, discussing it with people other than partners. I haven't spoken to my friends and I don't think I ever would. Perhaps I'm unusual, but I don't go in for the "well, she was a right goer and she..." type of conversations. I think a relationship is between the partners and shouldn't be "open season" for discussion and comparison with all your friends. To take two examples: how would you feel, Holly, if your boyfriend discussed the how nice your pussy was with his football team mates?! Or even if as a friend I posted a graphic account of how naughty you've been sometimes at the Pool? No... I really think details of a relationship belong to the partners involved.

So, that leaves the Internet. As others have commented, this is a great way of realising that we're not alone and it gives us an opportunity to express an element of our sexuality which may well not be satisfied in 'real life'. And as that is likely to make us less concerned with our fetish or even more satisfied with our relationship which may not meet our needs in that area, then I think that is a very good thing.

Well... you asked for it, so that's my tuppeny-happeny worth! I think I have one emoticon left...

Best wishes, WT images/smiles/icon_razz.gif

PS I'll see if Hotmail is working again now!

[WT]

Hi Holly!

Oh dear!!! images/smiles/icon_wink.gif

Disgracefully drunk, out 'til 3am in the freezing cold, not up until 1pm and still looking like death images/smiles/icon_redface.gif

I can't wait for this one... images/smiles/icon_eek.gif images/smiles/icon_rolleyes.gif

Heee, hee, hee!

(But will have to as I'm off to my g/f's now images/smiles/icon_smile.gif )

Best wishes, WT images/smiles/icon_wink.gif images/smiles/icon_razz.gif

¬_{:-o+^~~O (Essex girl, drunk in gutter, doing a river!!!)

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[Anonymous]

Nice to see some of us still remember the old £sd. What with Noah Fludde having his two bob's worth and now Wet Trousers having his tuppenny hapenny worth I reckon someone ought to go for a full guinea's worth.

Now....how many farthings are there in a guinea......?

[Larry Lamb]

People are people. There is a terrible tendencyu to judge as if there are genuine normal standards for sex and pleasure but individuality counts for much more. The thing about wetting is that it is seen by the wider world in a negative light because of the associations it has with childhood. There are very few men I would suggest that think a girl coming in her panties is not a turn on. But when the liquid is wee, that view changes.

I think the trick in a relationship is to get to a level of intimacy where all the barriers drop and the trust is absolute. That can take a long time, and vary from one couple to another, but it can happen, and is key to a really good sex life anyway - full trust and openness is ideal, I would suggest.

I have been lucky to have two girlfriends who I could be that open with, and that was fantastic. In time, you may feel that complete trust that you can truly bare your soul, Holly. I hope so because you would be happier I am sure. But neither would I worry or rush it. It will happen at some point if the relationship continues, and when it does, well...

Cheers.

[DavidEngland99]

Hi Holly,

The only way I have 'come out' is by writing on this board (and WetSet) and some email and phone contacts arising from here. I agree, when I first started writing I felt quite anxious too! Although I have never asked her, I am pretty sure that my partner of many years is not into this, so I have avoided the embarrassment of asking her.

I think this is very difficult because people may cover up their feelings. For example, if your BF is turned on by seeing you wet he may think he has to hide it in case you think him gross! I think one possible approach would be something like "You know, it was funny, the other day when I had that accident I got a funny feeling a bit like an orgasm...... Has that ever happened to you?" That way you get to discuss it without immediately admitting you are really into it. That is just a thought - I have not road-tested the idea!

I also suspect that people who like giving oral sex are quite likely to be into wetting - or at least not actively repelled. When you kiss down there it often smells a little bit of pee, and I must admit I like that!

I hope that helps,

David

[Anonymous]

In high school when peeing outdoors with the guys I was not shy about saying I had been holding it all night and saying "Ahhhhhhh". In high school the guys did say "Ahhhhh" a lot not as adults.
There were 2 times I overdid it in the 1980's. Once I posted about before. At a train station at 4AM on a early Sunday morning after a night of clubbing 2 young women were walking back and forth from one end the train station to another. The bathrooms were locked and this was the high crime era so outdoors was out of the question. The women went into an arcade and I followed them knowing there was no bathroom in there. I went up to them and said "do you have to go to the bathroom" I expected them to say "yes" then I would say "Is there one here" and this would lead to a "desperation conversation" where we would describe how long we had been holding it and hopefully more although I did not expect that. One said "no" with obvious fear in her voice and I backed off right away.
The other 80's incident I did not post one evening I was heading back from a baseball game she a Bette Midler concert. We talked about why she liked Bette. I mentioned I had to pee hoping the she had to also. She said "Why don't use use the bathroom on the train". I should have either used it or said they were to dirty for me and ended that part of the conversation. But now that I had let it out I could not shut up and she ended up moving to the other side of the car.
Since them I have been to scared for the most part. One time though in the 90's me a guy and his girlfriend were talking a her first day at her new job waitressing I think when she said "I was so busy I did not even bother using the bathroom". I asked her how long her workday was. It was 4 hours. I held back this time.
I think it would have to be absoulutly obvoius before I might say anything. Before this board it would never happen

[parkvilla]

Hi again Holly and all.

I just remembered an incident several years ago in the middle of the night with wifey. I was asleep and horny and was dreaming erotic things about her wetting her pants. This led me to say several things in my sleep (something I'm not known for doing!), one of which was "I've wet my pants and you've done a wee in yours". I woke up almost immediately in a lovely close embrace, aware of what I'd just said and a little embarassed. Wifey felt me and said I hadn't wet my pants because I was still dry, but to go to the loo just in case!. She also said it sounded cute, just like a little boy....

A moment to be savoured! I had come out involuntarily!! images/smiles/icon_rolleyes.gif

[Holly]

Hiya,

I have to say that this is one of the most fascinating threads I've read for some time. Everybody has really opened up and been so honest. Thankyou for the latest replies from Peewit, Phil, Matt (glad to hear that your willy is better images/smiles/icon_wink.gif ) Finesse and WT images/smiles/icon_razz.gif

I must admit Finesse, I was surprised too by how many of us have come out in some way and shared it with people we know. I've cheated a bit really and managed to tell completely by accident, a friend in a far off country who I have known since we were young teenagers. We both discovered some thing but we never talk about it really. But of course we're both very aware what happenned that afternoon on the beach. But because I see her at most, once or twice a year, it's not the same. And the fact that I mentioned that I wet my self in the shower at work........(oops...sorry that should have read "at work I mentioned that I wet myself in the shower"...we don't have a shower at work ! haha) was probably just viewed as a bit off a joke. Crucially, I didn't tell them that what I get turned on by weeing in my knickers!!

So I think would put myself in the same category as Phil and Finesse and the internet is my only outlet for how I feel. I wonder how many others out there, read the board but do so in secret and wouldn't dream of posting. I was like that once but I'm really so glad I can share it here. I really am images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

To answer your question despk, (thanks for saying I'm sexy ,flattery will get you everywhere!!) yes I am serious with my boyfriend and that's more important than anything. Perhaps we will experiment one day, maybe in the shower together, that would be nice ) I certainly wouldn't tell my brother...... my Mum? (Oh my God!!! she'd kill me!! images/smiles/icon_eek.gif

I read your account with alot of interest as well WT. You've told me bits before and of course I respect your privacy. I hope my boyfreind doesn't discuss my ***** down the pub (I can't bring myself to repeat what you just said haha images/smiles/icon_redface.gif images/smiles/icon_razz.gif )but if all his mates are giving me funny looks then I ll begin to wonder!!).....No he wouldn't do that but of course these things are for private discussion.

I've been using the internet for about two and bit years now and found Patches last Summer. It's funny but the net has really liberated us and its nice to have cyberfriends we can be so open with. So thankyou everybody (blows nose wipes away tear! images/smiles/icon_wink.gif Actually I'm serious, I really enjoy doing this and then I can put it one side and get on with the rest of my life. It's just another part but it makes me happy.

I 'd really love to hear of anyone else who wants to reply to this thread. It's fascinating. Thankyou

Take Care

Holly x images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

[Lloyd]

Ooh, ooh, pick me, pick me!! I have "come out" to a number of people. Actually they were all women, as I recall. I don't think I could confide in something like that with a male friend. Just not something I can really come to grips with, but a woman? No worries. Some think it's a bit weird, one even told me in no uncertain terms "that's sick!!", but most are at least accepting of it if not actually interested. I find it's really the "normal" ones that find it most unacceptable, and the more way out ones are much more accepting. I haven't gone around telling all my female friends I'm into wetting my pants, but the few close ones I have told have been mostly pretty OK about it.

And of course, there have been wet girlfriends and my exwife, who all seemed quite happy with it as part of our relationship, and these women were all very playful about it - I suppose it brings out the kid in us so to speak but it's really quite liberating to the couple concerned, so I'm never really afraid to tell someone. I'll start out pretty carefully while I figure out their level of acceptance of anything "not normal", and let it go from there, hinting without really actually telling them. I figure if they can figure it out for themselves, then they are at least attuned to the possibility...

Lloyd. images/smiles/icon_biggrin.gif

[Holder]

Hi Holly

Well, I'm in the group that's only ever come out on the net. I've been with my girlfriend for ages, and I think it would be impossible now to tell her that I've always been into it, yet never told her. She'd surely wonder what else I could be into and kept secret all these years!

I've never told any friends either through risk of being thought of as weird. This also applies to my gf too in a way, after all we have a very happy and close relationship, so why risk spoiling it?

My gf needs to use the loo quite frequently - small bladder not weak one - so my plan for next year is to get her into a situation where wetting herself is a real option. The plan would be to go off to a secluded (but not deserted) beach in the summer when she's wearing a one-piece swimsuit (hers is black), drink loads, and wait for the call of nature. At this point I'll casually say "why don't you just do it through your swim suit" (I won't say wet yourself as it sounds child-like) and wait for the reaction. If she does it, I'll ask her what it felt like, and take it from there.

So the whole idea is to see whether she likes it without ever having to admit anything! As for me, I think I may admit that it was a turn on seeing her do it if she says that it was first, otherwise, I'll just say "don't worry, you can always wash off in the sea"

Regards

Gary (UK)

[Frankie]

HI Holly! How are ya!?? I just wanted to say.... I guess I came out in a big way!! Ive always enjoyed wetting myself in private for a long time! But never really shared it with anyone!! Then about a few months ago... on the computer...punched in a few words...panty wetting.... and BINGO!!! Wow I could not believe my eyes!! Then I knew I wasnt the only one!!! Like you I was a little nervous at first...but jumped right in to the sauce!! Id post some stories from time to time... but dont get very many replies!! Im surprised you never replied to any!!! But Just have fun and makes me feel good!! images/smiles/icon_smile.gif Its people like YOU! and everyone else that make easy to post and share stories about our little interest images/smiles/icon_wink.gif Everyone here is warm and very kind!! images/smiles/icon_cool.gif Especially you!! You have a .... CUTE NAUGHTY SEXY WARM KIND and NIPPILEY way of posting stories.... and replying... and are fun and enjoyable!!!! images/smiles/icon_razz.gif Thanks so much!!! images/smiles/icon_biggrin.gif Keep your knickers DAMP! images/smiles/icon_razz.gif images/smiles/icon_wink.gif Love Frankie oxox images/smiles/icon_wink.gif

[wetbvds]

Well let me add my few drops to this thread..., I guess I came out when I got my first wife to do some pee play with me.

But for the most part, I didn't really come out until the inter-net (about 4 years ago) showed me that there is a whole lot of us out there. Sence then I have talked one on one with people on the net about my love for the gold.

I have even gone out into the public with a wet spot showing on my pants.

[Anonymous]

I really am out of line commenting on this post, I am sorry...I did read it though only because I thought that I might in some way learn from it.

I have comments and if for some reason you don't want my comments....well hit the back button now.

Holly-I too was very scared/nervous the first time that I posted here also. I though am not the one who needed to share but the one who needed you and others to share with me. I felt down right embarrassed, even here on this board admitting who I was. Funny now to me how simple this subject really is. I can guarentee you as a born a gain christian I have studied it...what a stupid thing for me to do...non the less I did.

I think that your 'come out' statement is very prescious. Did you notice how many who responded to your post are married...and have 'come out'? See I think that the real ticket here starts with the fact that there is a 'real' or 'lasting' relationship. Not just that dating thing. Don't mark my words though.

I think someday Holly that you will find the right man and marry him. Then you will find the time to share your most intimate hearts desire. Don't waste it before it is time on some boyfriend....no matter how close you are. Please don't do something so wonderful with someone you have not decided to spend your life with. Trust the big girl...ahhhh do what you want...not worth it though girl. Unfortunately I have been around the block-regrets suck.

Your boyfriend saw you...you don't think he was turned on....Holly...I am not by my hubby...not in the least bit...I do though do it for him, for him, and for me....I love how aroused he becomes. I was married before I found out about my hubbys little "kink" and from the short amount of time I have been here, I really don't think to many people involved in this 'Kink' would leave someone because of it. If you have a stable relationship with 'him'....talk. I was really turned on by the surprise pee-ing. Maybe you could top him and when he is just to orgasim....pee. Bet he would love it.


Morten-I really wish that I could take away all of the negative feelings you and so many others here on the board feel. This whole thing is not that bad.

Larry Lamb- tooo funny if only the neighbors knew what my hubby and I do...not only in the bedroom but in the barn, garage, near the fire, and etc.

Seaping- I agree that you should have a more personal intimate realtionship before you share.
Also, more women would pee for their wanted to be pee-d on men if they only knew or understood how turned on you guys really got.

SPV silly man....did nothing I suggest help? I agree with the accidental part. That is what hubby said he did to me. I think in a secure, and stable and open relationship....go for it. SPV...that includes you....Get her almost to orgasm, lots of foreplay mind you...and as you are on top of her...pee, you better have your aim right though...lol. SPV it was the greatest sex I have ever had. You have been with your wife long enough what is the worse that will happen? You will put her through the roof. I think.

for tonight.

[scout]

hi everybody, sorry it's been so long since i've posted; i was working very hard at both jobs, trying to sell my home & buy land (bigger & better for the critters) but hey! work's not a problem anymore - been fired - wished the sob's a merry xmas on my way out. anyway enough of my whining, really want to respond to the "come out" question.
yes i have told many of my friends, but like some others who responded, only those of the opposite sex. and i'm somewhat ashamed to say, i've only wet myself with one lover. she had wet with & for me many times and was the second person other than professional ladies with (in?) whom i confided.
the first was my ex-wife. we had gone out and she had had alot to drink, was quite tipsy if not completely drunk and when we got home she was all over me. i half carried her into the bedroom, sat her down & undressed her while she was groping & kissing me & we were both laughing & goofing around. well she dragged me on top of her once we were both undressed and to make a long story even longer, when she orgasmed, she peed. okay, i'm not doing the story justice: linda was very vocal and very, hot & horny that night. she was the aggressor that night, even though she was on her back. she had been meeting my thrusts in a rather uncoordinated fashion & frustrated, she lay back and demanded that i fuck her. (i believe she said "Oh shit! i can't do it ....! fuck me ...! make me cum!) not very poetic, but being the obliging husband i was i did just that (we'd been married for years & i knew her body well & what to do when etc.) this does not mean that i was above teasing a bit & as i felt her begining to orgasm, i withdrew & pinching her nipples, watched her writhe a bout trying to draw mw back in. when i did SLAM back into her she came in great waves, clamping down so hard that it would have been a memorable orgasm without the hard, hot squirts of pee that hit my bush and sent me over the top. we were both so aroused that it went on for a very long time. we held each other tight as i thrust in getting rewarded with a squirt each & every time i "bottomed out". eventually i relaxed deep inside her and as she was experiencing "aftershocks" she began to pee. a slow & steady stream ran over me, interrupted by little twitches of her and my completely connected genitalia. as she relaxed i was getting another erection (- not that i had really lost the first one!). her stream increased & then abruptly cut off, clamping down on my very happy member with enormous force. "oh shit ...! I've wet the bed!!!" she exclaimed, sitting up with me still inside her. i tried to reassure her, but it was no use. she was desperately holding back & leaking on us. and eventually got me off of her & staggered off to the bathroom, nealy knocking the door off the track in her haste to close it. i lay in & next to the wet spot with an incredible erection - so hard it actually hurt! - listening to her pee hard into the bowl.
sorry to those who found this too graphic, i tried to tone it down but i'm afraid if i proof read this i won't post it.
anyway, the point is that i tried telling linda how much it turned me on & she couldn't even begin to deal with it. even in her drunken state. and when she sobered up she was so embarrassed that she wouldn't really talk about it, much less admit how incredible her own orgasm had been. when time had passed & i tried to let her know that it (her peeing) was something that i would really enjoy exploring, she blew me off & worse yet used it in arguments totally unrelated to our sex life. so with linda (may the fleas of a thousand camels infest her armpits!) the ex-wife it was an unmitigated disater confiding in her.
but take heart. lynne was my next lover & once i decided to risk telling her, our sex life improved dramatically! she was not only understanding & non-judgemental, but at first uninterested, doing it only to please me. yes she got turned on by being able to make me so horny i couldn't see straight, but eventually, it became an intergral part of our lovemaking & a way to get us both going. she admitted one day, well let me tell the story... skip it if it's already too long.
lynne & i were at her apartment & she asked "do you want me to pee for you?" this made me love her sooo much! i answered that yes i always wanted that, but what did she want. i explained that what i really wanted was to make her as happy as she made me. "tell me your fantasies & i will try my best!" she was unprepared for this & said so, but also (blushing furiously & averting her eyes) admitted that "it really turns me on to pee now! even when i go at work, all i can think about is being with you." so success!
a very positive & a very negative experience as two examples of what can happen if you come out. my current lover pees for me often & creatively, talks about having to go(!) being desparate & even lets me video her. she is a magnificent lover, but is not turned on by our fetish. she does it only to please me.
so my advice is to come out. like some of the others i'm older (46) & i don't have time or energy for being untrue to myself or my lover. this does NOT mean that i've told any of my male friends other than youse guys onda list heah that i know i can trust!
like i said i'm going to post this without proofing since i won't post it if i read it & i owe you all too much to hold back. thanks for the question & thanks to skymouse for the safe haven. -S

[Danielle]

Dear Holly,

I've loved reading these wonderful posts from the heart. Society has opened up a lot more than it was years ago. I believe the 21st century will lead us into a lot more acceptance of each others fantasies, fetishes, goals, and desires. I say this because panty wetting or knicker wetting as you say has been my favorite past time for many many years.

I don't know what your age is Holly, but I am a 45 years old and no longer worry about what other people think about my fetish fantasy of panty wetting. A persons sexual desires and fantasies are an integral part of any possible relationship of any depth. A deep loving relationship will support whatever the persons sexual desires are.

My point is this: So many women, especially younger, think that if the guy is so handsome, so rich, so fun to be with, etc... it isn't worth jeopordizing because of a secret fantasy. Well, many women have tried it and discovered, if the guy won't accept them for who they are (fantasies and all). He doesn't really LOVE them enough to make a relationship last a lifetime.

Trust me dear! I tried for 18 years to keep my secret, but eventually it came out in the open. And though my significant other tried to work with me some. There was always a lot of shame based comments about it whenever there was an argument. I've been divorced now 8 years and will never again settle for second best.

As can be seen by this bulletin board and I have read many other places there is a lot of men out there who love us women to pee our panties. And these men are even greatly aroused by it! I believe there are enough people in the world with this same panty wetting erotica that there should be a match made in heaven for everyone. Sometimes it takes a little time to find that perfect match, but with patience and understanding it can be done.

Please do yourself a favor and don't settle for anything less. You deserve the BEST!

I'll leave you with this favorite quote of mine from a little book called "Illuminations" -

"The space for what you really want is already filled with what you settle for instead"

Many Hugs and Best Wishes,
Danielle

[Anonymous]

Holly,

Am I the only one to 'come out' at a church meeting? It was about 18 people, including 4 or so gays, discussing the gays' role in the church. The conversation treated everyone as gay or straight. That bothered me enough to present myself as an example of straight, but not exactly traditional. A few faces lit up to think of the issue in a less black/white way. It's a very huggy church & I think more people hug me & talk to me than before I came out.

But then a girl cusin taught me about wading pees & let me watch her being obvious in front of boys. And my first on-going girlfriend liked me to watch her pee. (Besides a something my mother said about pee & sex, but may not have ment as I understood it.) So I guess I've thought it sort of common for decades.

Stanley

[SummerWetGuy]

Scout, thanks so much for describing your experiences. No, you weren't too graphic - it was very appropriate for this group.

Let me describe my coming out, a bit different from what's been said here already. Like you, Scout, I'm older than most people posting here, in fact I'm a bit older than you are. When I married my second wife, over 20 years ago, I hadn't yet fully acknowledged to myself my fascination with watersports. I was very up tight and inhibited as a young person, and have only come into my true self in recent years. So, at first with wifey, there wasn't any issue about "coming out". But as I developed and accepted my fascination with ws, it did become an issue.

What I did was gradually introduce pee play into our lovemaking, without making a big deal about it. Then, I bought Patches' first video, the one with her and her friend flooding their pants - what a hoot that video is! Wifey and I watched it, laughing. That sort of broke the ice on the subject, although I could tell she wouldn't be becoming a panty wetter. Then I bought the two videos from Patches called "Watersports for Lovers, Parts I and II". I think these are the BEST ws videos ever made, because they show an obviously committed couple just having a whole lot of fun with combining pee and sex. Wifey actually likes those videos! We often use them as background ambience for our lovemaking.

Wifey now will pee on me, let me pee on her, let me drink her, will occasionally drink me, and most of all she absolutely loves to have me piss as hard as I can directly on her clit - drives her wild!

Now, this is a woman who, I'm sure, does not think of herself as a person with a pee fetish as I do of me. She doesn't want to look at any pee sites on the web, and doesn't do anything with pee by herself - no panty wetting, no accidents, no public peeing, no diapers, etc. Whereas, I am into all of that, big time. She only sees it in the context of our lovemaking. But, given where we started out and where we are now, I think I'm a very lucky guy!

[Grant]

Hello Holly,

It's taken me a while to reply to this question, so here goes. I think I asked you, Holly, about whether you were prepared to tell other people about wetting yourself a few months ago.
As for me, I told several people about the time when I asked a prostitute to pee over me several years ago (she didn't because she had been to the toilet - stupid girl!) and most of the reactions were of surprise. I'm on the shy side, so I'm surprised I told people (several work colleagues) about this.
I've also hinted over the years to various people that I like to see a woman wet herself or pee over me, but I now share my love of watersports with a female work mate who I've known for many years. We don't indulge in any watersports activities with one another, but we are close friends and talk to each other about our "secret" interest. It is nice to be able to share feelings about watersports with a close friend, so now the next step is to have a sexual "wet" relationship with a female.
Any females interested?! images/smiles/icon_wink.gif images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

[Holly]

Hiya,

This is my BIG thankyou

I've just been reading all the replies to this topic. I think they've been absolutely amazing. There are so many nice people on this board and everyone's been so honest.

So thank you for all the replies and the latest replies from peewit and Larry Lamb for your thoughtful reply; WT again (thanks for telling everybody what I was up to on saturday night images/smiles/icon_eek.gif images/smiles/icon_redface.gif ) David thanks for your personal reply; filherup for an entertaining account; SPV for a funny account;Lloyd and Danielle. Danielle I loved your reply so nice and personal (please write privately if you want to (I'm just 23 by the way); Gary I hope things work out with your girlfriend; Frankie and wetbvds. Tlili, like Danielle's, I really thought about your reply; Scout.....what an absolutely incredible reply!! images/smiles/icon_wink.gif images/smiles/icon_biggrin.gif ; Summer wetguy another really honest account and finally Grant thanks for replying again and again for being so honest.

I loved the way your replies, tried to help me as well. Really.

Take Care everybody and thanks

Holly xx images/smiles/icon_smile.gif images/smiles/icon_rolleyes.gif

[wetfan]

Hello Holly,

I think perhaps there have been different stages to my "coming out" of the wet closet. The first would have been the moment I full accepted that this was part of who I am, and stopped feeling guilty about my enjoyment. That was soon after discovering Wetset (the magazine the messageboard).

The second stage was probably when I admitted it and spoke openly about it in chatrooms. Not the wetting chatrooms, but regular joe ones. I met a lot of different reactions, but for the most part people were nice and just curious about it. Although I did met someone else like me, and I introduced her to the online community. For a while she posted at Wetset quite a bit. A few might remember her as ppPanties.

The third was when I told someone I knew. This wasn't a girl friend, or even one of my best friends. He's a gay buddy of mine and we get together every so often to catch up. I don't know what it was, but I just felt I could tell him and he wouldn't care. So I did, and he is the only one of my friends I've told about my fetish.

At the moment I have no intentions of telling any other friends and certainly not my family images/smiles/icon_eek.gif I suppose the only next step for me would be telling either a girl friend, or meeting someone else who is into wetting too.

I think the more we come to realize we're not alone and every person is different and entitled to their fetishes (provided the are not illegal or hurt anyone) then the more we come out. Coming out is really just becoming more comfortable with who you are.

Take care

wetfan

[wetfan]

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by Finesse:
Hi!

But even if my partner would react nice to the accident dont mean the reaction would be the same when I tell I likes it, and does it on purpose, since that is totally different. I mean an accident would be an accident but on purpose?
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Hello Finesse,

You're right that you're partner could be nice about an "accident" because they are caring, but there are other ways to tell if someone is turned on. I have read they if someone's pupils dilate it is a sign of arousal.

Go researching other "signs" the body gives when someone is turned on, and while having your "accident" look for those. It might give you a better idea.

Take care

wetfan

[bvb1]

Hi all I'M a 32 year old married man. Since I discovered my fetish like most of you before this wonderful internet I realized at the age of about 14 or 15 the only way I might see a girl I desired wetting her pants was to slyly bring it up.I am happy to say of my many girlfriends only 4 said they did not ever want to do this and only 2 actually never had an accident for me or in front of me.
My married life is not so good though because I married a jealous woman who thinks that because she decided (after a year and a half of marriage) not to indulge me anymore I should give up my fetish and pretend all of this is not out here. Unfortunatly this and other things have lead to a divorce and she is threatening to expose this in court as a power play to get our children not to be able to see me.
So be careful when you let someone you are close to know, I never would have said this before but I am a really good father and this really scares me.

[Anonymous]

I have, to my wife, and to two girl-friends. But my fetish is seeing them wetting, not doing it myself. The three of them were surprised, and one was a bit shocked. But she was the one who really tried it out and found something in it.

[barry155]

Well Holly - I've decided to come clean and answer your request - after enjoying so many of the others.

My ex wife was the first person to know my "fascination" with her being desperate and how excited I would be if she wet her panties... she sometimes humoured me a bit with a joke - but never allowed me to touch her if I suspected nything, nor would she wet or admit if she had an accident - although i was alwyas asking..... she never took offense she just would not let me into that space...

She was one of those women who could be doing something and quite normal, then get a sudden URGENT need to pee and she would bend over at the waist, bum sticking out, and walk to the loo OR if it was really bad, she would freeze like that, maybe adding a hand betwen her legs for a few seconds till she got control - then she would be fine again - and could wait for much longer if needed.

I often suspected her little "duck walks" as I called them resulted in a spurt or two of wee.... and over the years did manage to see some pee stains and wet patches on her panties - but never anything major... apart from once

first year of marriage and she got some kind of bladder infection... mild but first indication was we had made love in the morning and were still in bed cuddling up, when she sat bolt upright, and lept out of bed like she was on fire... I got a strange feeling so followed her and found myself feeling wet sopts acorss the bed and walking in puddles along the floor.... I just followed the puddles and they ended in the loo where my wife was sitting there finishing what little was left with dripping wet panties around her feet and a rather vulnerable sheepish look.... i was very turned on and fascinated but too young to take it anywhere... I helped her clean it up

anyways she knew I got a thrill out of it because I would often grab her to tickle her if I was on the spot when her bum suddenyl stuck out 0 that sure sign she got an urge.... but although good fun she just would not give me any satisfaction other than a little smile and denial

So for 18 years the desires were either latent or only a fantasy in my mind... awakened by a sighting or my wife's urges and near misses etc.

The I discoverd the internet and I remembered my fascination...I searched incontinence sites trying to find info and hopefully case histories trying to find something to feed my desires..


But my Christian upbringing held me back from going to naughty sites and besides i did not know if anyone else had my fetish.

After getting as much as i could from the incontinent sites I finally got brave enough to type in "wet panties" and "peed panties" on a search and what opened up was a new world i never knew existed..... so i was not a freak!

from there i met a lady online at wetset and we began to chat then email and finally it led to full scale cybersex - not a thing i am proud of now, but I was desperately unhappy in my unloving marriage and for the first time felt desireable and loved..... if you could call that love (I was not in my right mind then ok images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

that taught me about watersports - never heard of it before - until then i thought in terms of just seeing a lady wet her panties or clothes was my thing - and could not imagine anything beyond.... now i saw pee games possible with a partner, and I learned about how pee is sterile (until like anything it is exposed to air.. or there is an infection), has healing properties etc etc and lost my revulsion for the actual liquid and began to wet my own pants from time to time when it was safe - by getting desperate - and it felt really good... then i would fantacise about a woman doing what i had done

the second person i shared with face to face after my wife was after my marriage had failed and i fell in love with woman i met on the net. She was in Africa and i went to see her and we had 10 days of absolute heaven but i did not tell her then.... although she seemed turned on when i would look into her eyes and hold her cummed panties to my face and give her a naughty and sexy look as i smelt her wonderful scent

I then brought her out to my country and showed her around and we had an awesome time and it was then we began to share some secrets... somehow she mentioned she had heard of urine therapy in passing so that gave me a lead.... I told her there was something a bit kinky i me... but it was very personal, I never talked to anyone about it, and was a bit shy to tell her.... i assured her it was not depraved or hurtful....

A woman cannot stand mystery for long - she just had to know, and she reassured me and coaxed me until she would have just about acepted anything i think she was so hot to know my secret images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

so i told her I got very turned on my a woman wetting her panties.

she was silent for a few seconds as she took it all in - it was very new to her.. she had never come acors it before... then she said.. "mmmm there is nothing wrong with that, i can live with that!"

whew! relief - i was wondering what her reaction would be

anyway that very day we got droped off on an island to be alone for a while and do some snorkling and have a picnic and the boat would come for us that afternoon....

we darnk and soon we had to pee. she had neevr peed in front of a man in her life, in fact had never peed OUTSIDE! She was a real lady and looked like a movie star... gorgeous blonde with light blue eyes, wonderful womanly body (not skinny) and very sexy and sweet...almost childlike

anyways she let me watch - but found it hard to get started (pee fright), but soon she got started and i watched as she slid her bikini briefs aside at her crotch and peed. it was the first time in my life i had seen it up close and it was very nice!

images/smiles/icon_razz.gif

anyways then we went diving and as we returnd to the beach we had to wade thru the lagoon as the tide was low and she told me she need to pee.. so i told her to go in her wetsuit

she smiled at me and stopped and concentrated, and in a while she looked at me and said "it's coming".... and i looked and could see it coming out under water thru her suit with my goggles on.. mmmmmmmm so I ran my hand between her legs and felt it all coming out...yummmmy

later she peed outside on a another day with panties on - but pulled them aside... and then one day she asked if i'd like to come to the loo with her.. as she knew i needed to go too

would the cat like a mouse?

then she sat down and waited while she pulled me to her, and I kneeled before her.. and I put my manhood between her legs and we embraced and kissed, then she began to cncentrate and a hot wet flow ran over my organ - it was wonderful!

it ran back along me and between my legs spilling over the toilet seat and splashing donw into her jeans and panties that were around her legs! wet panties!

then I pulled myself back a bit and aimed right at her love button and let rip.... and she found that very erotic and wonderful.... so much that after we had both finished (she still peed while i did) she tried to mount me right there on my knees.. mmmmmmmm we did but movement was too hard so we went to bed and continued.... she smiled at me when I took her wet panties and kissed them in front of her and buried my face in them adn told her how sexy she was and how lovely she was

so thats two people plus a cybergirl - that i had long since broke up with

then my partner got home sick and left back for Africa... and it was just me again

now i am in love again with the woman of my dreams - we are soul mates, share a common deep faith, connecting on every level.... and i have told her. She will be mine for life and i will be hers.... it is something very rare and precious and we both know and recognise that

i did not expect to get anything but acceptance from her because i knew she would not reject me over something so trivial - i am so secure in her love as she is in mine

but what i got was more..... she told me she would see what she could do.... she told me she also haas a secret - that sometimes when she climaxed - she would wet herself....

wow! I thought God is so good! She was already perfect but this was the icing on the cake - i think i am in heaven images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

A male friend i once told that i find it sexy to see a woman pee - but did not add "in her panties"... he thought it intimate too.

as for watersports and panty peeing etc - it is only for my one and only - and maybe sometimes chatting anonymously with you dear people. God bless

[Holly]

Hiya peeweekiwi,

I just wanted to say that was one the most amazing, honest and incredible posts I have read on this thread. I really enjoyed reading, it was quite briiliant and fascinating. I hope many other friends on this board read it as well.

Thank you

Take Care

Holly x images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

[barry155]

Awwwhhh Shucks Holly

Now I am all embarrassed... images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

What a wonderful thing to say Holly, thank you for that... and you are very welcome...

your supherb posting is the most popular one I think I 've seen on this board - you certainly hit the jackpot.

So many people post and don't get replies even though many read them and enjoy them - it is just most are too shy to comment or too busy, so just read and enjoy...but to generate that level of interest was pure genious

It really hit a chord with so many of us here. I truly believe honesty is the answer provided that we have a deep level connection with the person.....

I also think that when trying to convince a lover of our little fetish - that our own personal hygeine is important too. If we are very clean in all the personal places as well as the usual places.. this will help others to not see us as "dirty".. but those whose personal hygeine is bad cannot expect any nice person to feel turned on by their fetish... my opinion. (unless of coure both of of the "great unwashed" mindset images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

Hey Holly - see my latest post it is a rhyme my lover sent me today re Xmas - it is sooooo cute

[Finesse]

Hi Wetfan!

Yeah, and I honestly cant imagine that somebodys partner wouldn´t be understanding if an accident happened. I mean what kind of person would not?

And maybe it is some signs to see if the partner is aroused, but I think that the chance of meeting somebody else who would like it, is like nothing, or at least as close to nothing you can get. So even if you would fake an accident I dont think it would matter if you know the signs if the partner was aroused or not since I honestly dont think the partner would be.

And since I am not seeing anybody now, and I still have the opinion I wouldn´t tell even if I was, it is not a hot topic for me. But I thought it was interesting to read about other people who told others and how they reacted.

Hugs
Finesse

[Anonymous]

Holly
Hope it isn't too late to reply to your question. I've always been excited by the thought of a girl desperate to pee (not necessarily to the point of wetting herself though that obviously is one fantasy) and I thought I was a real oddball. Then when I was about 20 I started going out with a girl who was really shy about going to the loo. On our first date I was hurt by her eagerness to get home - she later told me she'd never been as desperate to pee in her life! As I relaxed on subsequent dates I began to notice she was often
fidgeting about towards the end of the evening, once for the last 20 minutes of a film, once while playing chess at my flat when she couldn't sit still but obviously didn't think she could ask to go during the game. I started to look for the tell-tale signs, finding discreet little ways of delaying her, and pouring her an extra mug of tea etc.
On about her fourth visit to my flat I could tell she was uncomfortable as we cuddled and I unbuttoned her dress and persuaded her to take it off. Anyway over the next half hour she got and more fidgety, shifting about on the sofa as we kissed, several times asking if it was time to get ready to go, but clearly feeling she couldn't go down the corridor in her slip. I could tell she was getting really desperate when suddenly she stood up and blurted out "I'm sorry but I've got to go to the Ladies Room". I reminded her she'd have to put her dress on but she was in such a state she had to sit down while buttoning it up, rocking to and fro as she did so.
She was blushing when she came back from the loo and half an hour later, before leaving the house she went again. I said "What, again!" and she laughed and said "I'm not as bad as my sister" and next time she was over we were able to joke about her visits to the loo. Somehow over the next week or so we are able to mutually confess, she that she was shy about going to the loo, me that I was excited by seeing girls desperate.
I asked if she'd ever wet herself and she eventually told me about three occasions; she also
said that once with me she'd been in such a hurry she'd wet herself in the loo. Over the next year she often got desperate for me, and a couple of times returned from the loo with wet knickers; the first time she was terribly embarrassed when I put my hand under her skirt and discovered them! However, though we talked about the subject I only saw her pee a couple of times, and then furtively.
After we split up I wasn't able to discuss it with anyone for about 10 years though I had been heartened by reading one or two letters in Forum or Search. In my 30s I fell in love with a new girl; it took quite a long time and much gentle persuasion before she would even let me watch her in the loo - but eventually I also felt able to confess that I was excited by seeing girls
desperate to go. She never really seemed to get desperate but she did volunteer to wet herself in the loo, and soon let me put my hand down there
as she did so. Wetfun became a regular part of our love play and in bed we would often arouse each other by telling stories of girls dying for a wee and wetting themselves. She said the whole subject now excited her as much as me.
Sadly we split up but in my 40s I met another girl who, after a few weeks, I felt able to confess my fetish too. She didn't seem surprised, saying she had noticed a look in my eyes when she
popped to the loo one day and saying she thought a lot of men were turned on by it. When I asked if she'd ever been really desperate she said she'd wet herself on several occasions,especially in her 20s when she just couldn't make it home from the clubs and pubs in time. She was perfectly happy for me to watch her pee, and would sometimes get desperate for me, but never wet herself for me. Again discussion of the subject became part of our loveplay, for she knew it turned me on (though it never became such a fetish to her.)
After that I had to wait for the internet. In fact, sometimes I began to feel an oddball again because there was so little pornography on the subject. Whenever I asked about watersports in a sex shop I was shown golden-shower or pee-drinking videos which do nothing for me. (Even now I suspect desperation fans have to play second fiddle on the internet to wetting enthusiasts.)
Many great memories remain. The secret, and I expect this applies to all fetishes, is to bring the subject up very gradually and in stages, trying to find a natural moment for the disclosures. So a girl who is into wetting should maybe start by getting desperate while with a b/f; see if that interests him and progress from there! It really is wonderful to be able to share one's fetish with someone you love. But if only the internet had been around 30 years ago!

[Anonymous]

Brook-I really feel for you. From the females side...If you think that she will use this in court she would have to have something to show them. Does she have anything to show them? Pictures etc? The advice that is given to women in a divorce situation or contemplating a divorce is keep a journal. We are instructed to write down everything. It will be valid in court, also the court will see through the lies-most of the time. It is unfortunate that "fetishes" are a cause to not allow that person to have custody of their children(in my state anyway). Tread lightly. Praying for your situation.

If a marriage is rocky already it would most likely not be a good time to share something new, exspecially to this extend. It is amazing to me watching friends go through divorce and how mean and ventictive(sp?) they become. So out of character.

[Val]

I've been quiet about this for nigh on 30 years. My first lover was into it, especially making me wet myself or on her. Strangely, she could never pee on me. The next sometimes wet herself at orgasm but only on one spectacular occasion when she just could not climax sitting in a chair with my fingers up her, I shoved the lot in suddenly and it brought her off but she cried her eyes out. Then feminism got in the way and I've found myself feeling obliged to treat women as the shocked little girlies all my generation's were insisting they did not have to be. Recently on the Web, I've heard he same thing from the same age even refering back to 'Female Eunuch' to liberate them from dire feminist warnings not to feel ashamed just because what they thought was a bit of fun together was 'really' the wicked rapist male taking advantage of the innocent sexless girl - in other words, to expect feeling ashamed to be the normal order after sex. I find the same with a lot of the Web pornography: it isn't about enjoying liberated sensations regardless of what they are as much as 'filthy sluts' and 'dirty *****es' being 'degraded'. I belong to a Web community actually called 'Feminisation through humiliation' because equality of clothing is another little concern of mine - but why 'humiliation'? I find feminine vastly preferable to masculine. Yet to do so when I was young implied the exact opposite: rejection of females for males. Guess what, there's a host of Gay activists screaming exactly the same misogyny today louder.
However, wetting oneself, loss of any control is portrayed to women as 'submission'. Feminists seem so obsessed with the practical superiority of all things masculine that any loss of self-control can only mean surrender to the Male Monster, not equal liberation from inhibitions together. In that light, even where I have mentioned it very slightly, the response has been the curious look that spells the Beginning of the End. One recent (well, 6 years ago) lover was incontinent but the funny thing was that because she derived no pleasure, in fact was often unaware of it, it did nothing for me either. I just felt caring about her - and a spot guilty in case caring implied to her mind the male dominance feminists feel when they are not whining about 'lack of support'. There was a time when I hired professionals to try various things out but again, I found that with somebody I didn't know who probably was only doing a well-paid job I envy (leastwise, the fees!), it was the equivalent of what Yuppies did to fine champagne. Mostly, I've found that thinking about games ended up with 'Ach to Hell with it, let's just do the best and the longest without getting complicated'. Always too in the back of my mind is the possibility of her learning prudery, deciding she 'really' didn't know what she was doing and I 'took advantage'. I was a few years ago involved with a sex-mad teenager (so obsessive that again her determination turned me off) who some months after she had stalked off saying I was 'too romantic and gentle' started phoning me up with what sounded like rent-a-therapist accusations, so again I fear recriminations for what was mutual pleasure at the time. Come to think of the only other teenager I've known said she like it 'hard and rough', so I suppose teenage girls are just as into finding their limits and marking notches as their spotty male counterparts - more equality for the feminists to pretend doesn't exist.

[Larry Lamb]

Hmmm...don't take this the wrong way, but you certainly seem to have issues!! Not sure exactly what they are (couldn't work out whether you dislike feminists, gay activists or agree with them), but hey, wetting is a sexual fetish for people that are into it. Where it comes from is not necessarily the same for each person and what it means to them is not the same for each person. There is no general rule, I would advocate.

[Val]

Well I'm good at letting my thoughts run away with me. I put up with too much hassle as a teenager being told I was 'queer' for prefering the feminine life, particularly from women, to take kindly to people who've accepted that social judgement to pretend continuing to force it on kids as alternative to the opposite sex is some kind of 'liberation'. As for feminists, I used to accept women as equal until they came back with endless garbage telling them how even when they thought they were they were not and the same old restrictive definitions of masculinity/femininity I'd spent my life escaping from. There's no 'wet' lifestyle, no sheep-shaggers rights, nobody considers masturbation as alternative to relationships and holds Wankers Pride marches: why the hell should involvement with your own sex be any different? Except of course that it became different and exclusive at a certain time in our history and all these pests are doing is to perpetuate false divisions and traditional concepts of mainstream heterosexuality right after the 60s tried to liberate them.

[icdixpeeohdelicious]

Thumbs UP to Larry Lambs response..sponce..hmmm..
ANYway, I come here as one who is verry straight, one might even say straight-LACED, but loving ALL good souls WHATEVER their persuasions! I'm VERRRY into male desperation! I, unlike probably MOST here, have never USED my bladder!(dripped into a pouch since I was 6..DOESN'T make for very fun ws I'm afraid). ALL OF WHICH, though, MIGHT be where my facination with DESPERATION began! I never knew what it was like to "hold it", and got a bit of a kick out of kids in class wriggling and BEGGING the teacher to let them GOHHH! I especially remember one boy in the 3rd grade who'd asked to be allowed to go, the teacher said no, and on the way back to his seat, his face turned BEET red, and a split-second later, HE was WET!!! And 30 years later, nothing turns me on more than to see a man in COMPLETE desperation, NOTHING!!! Mmmm..seeing him bennnt, and bobbing, and hhhollldinnngg HIMSELF..IN PUBLIC..With NO time to even THINK of finding a bathroom..OR EVEN PRIVACY!!! OHHH! NOPE! NO better turn-on!!! images/smiles/icon_wink.gif
SO, that's what brings ME here, and THANKS Larry for your perceptiveness which makes me feel I fit right in, as different as III might be! images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

[Val]

Good for you! I don't feel turned on by somebody with genuine unfeeling incontinence. As I've said somewhere, I knew one and I just felt sorry for her. She has all my old briefs because with the elastic gone fitted her waist and the balls-bag can handle a pad and they're thin nylon so dry at a glance. I supose, for women there's the extra thrill of up front or down below? Will he show hte extra embarrassement of erection or won't he? I've been caught in that situation where avoiding the lesser embarrassement sitting behind a table for too loong leads to starting the greater. And you can't walk off holding onto it either.
My best was fixing the car in a cold park hundreds of yards from where I was working. I was wearing light green velvet pants borrowed from a female friend at the time and for some reason wouldn't pee openly in the car park and kept putting off the run to the hospital until I knew I'd never make it. So I ended up lying on my back in a puddle with my hands tying exhaust and driving 3 miles to the centre of Birmingham to my girlfriend's hospital. She was well into wet things but I wasn't going to sneak into the canteen I wasn't entitled to in full view through the back door via the VD clinic like that! I waited for her and in the end caught our friend, who happened to own the velvet pants! She nearly wet herself laughing too. What happened when Jani found me was more regular and we both had trouble walking for a while. I no longer have the green velvet pants.

[icdixpeeohdelicious]

Hey Holy!
I don't think I quite answered your query properly the other day when I got into my story! SO, to FURTHER elaborate a bit..No, I've never
"come out" to anyone about my fascination with this fun area..especially my faaavvourrite,MALE DESPERATION!OHHHH!!! As I've said before, NOTHING is more of a turn-on for me..NOTHING!!!..You see, due to my medical history..i've actually MADE history several times,because i SURVIVED..I'm the only 40+ year-old girl I know who's celebate! And I DO MEAN CELEBATE! LIFELONG! And not for only religious reasons, altho' I DO like the thought of WAAAITING before a proper union celebration!..(or is it 'cel-I-bate'?)..ANYway,that 'particular activity'just never was what my body was about,(is how I've always phrased it), because of all the medical searchery; exploratories, surgeries, etc., by the time I would normally gotten 'into' THAT sort of exploring, my body and I said "Quite enough 'exploring',THANK YOU!" I always felt a great excitement tho' with bladder-matters! Because it was so ALIEN to me! I STILL WONDER what an extreeeemely extended, OR a jjussst emmmpty bladder FEELS like!!! (maybe the latter as good and comfortable as snuggled in a warrrm wet bed on a COHHHOLLLD mmuh-morning, YES(?)! I feel LUCKY actually,that sighting, or even just heeearing about- a guy on the struggling on the very verge, the ablolute BRINK of peeing his pants is SUCH A COMPLETE TURN-ON for me!!! I mean think of the PROBLEMS I avoid!!..Although a beautiful wonderful THING, A GIFT, sex can lead to so much MY body could never have HANDLED...
we're adults here,(I HOPE!), so you know you're aware of the down sides of which I speak..I feel not only satisfied, but SAFE in my little secret TURN-ON! images/smiles/icon_biggrin.gif I mean no one's ever gotten the clap from seeing a man PEE..have they??!! LOL Please advise if you've heard differently,will ya!
AHH it's been a blast, but I've gone on too long already! So long! HAPPEE NEW YEAR!!! images/smiles/icon_biggrin.gif

[Anonymous]

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by Holly:
Hiya,

I was wondering how many of us on this board have 'come out' in some small way about this funny little interest we have.

Actually even posting on this board is 'coming out' in some way. I used to get really nervous everytime time I posted. That in itself was a big thing for me. 18 months ago it was my secret and mine alone. And then I discovered this on the internet.

Now it's all different. I have a friend who's into this as well but we live a long way apart from each other. I've admitted at work that I wet myself in the shower. Yet I've never admitted it to my girlfriends, my boyfriend or my family. And to be honest, I don't think I ever will!

Freinds know I have trouble reaching the toilet on time and have the occaissional accident. At work they even made a joke about a stain on the seat haha. It wasn't me....really images/smiles/icon_wink.gif But no one knows that I actually enjoy wetting myself in private and now and again if I'm really daring (my god that is a thrill!) in public but also in secret, if you know what I mean.

Anyway I just wondered how many of us think that we have 'come out' of the WC (or the shower in my case images/smiles/icon_wink.gif ) and admitted this to someone in some small way. And in what way have we 'come out'? Or how many of us think that simply writing on the Internet is far as we will ever go.

Take care

Holly x images/smiles/icon_smile.gif images/smiles/icon_smile.gif images/smiles/icon_rolleyes.gif <hr></blockquote>


To Holly;
I have loved wetting my pants, bed, and my diapers and plastic pants ever since I can remember. It is almost impossible to decribe! I had a definite thrill whenever I wet my pants as a little girl. The hot wetness in my panties and pantythose took my breath away! The more I could show off my wet and stained pants, panties, and pantyhose to other little girls, the better!

I so much want us to wet our pants together! I am soaking wet right now and hope to hear from you soon.

Just to give you a recent incident; I was enroute from Chicago Midway Airport to DIA Airport. A beautiful girl was seated next to me for the two-hour flight. She was blissfully unaware that I was intentionally wetting my pants for the duration of the flight, despite the huge wet stain across the front of my jeans. It felt fantastic! (Well, maybe she was aware!) I went through the train, baggage check, etc. with a very wet crotch hoping for another very wet girl! Damn!

[Val]

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by &lt;wetcindy33>:



To Holly;
I have loved wetting my pants, bed, and my diapers and plastic pants ever since I can remember. It is almost impossible to decribe! I had a definite thrill whenever I wet my pants as a little girl. The hot wetness in my panties and pantythose took my breath away! The more I could show off my wet and stained pants, panties, and pantyhose to other little girls, the better!

<hr></blockquote>

Did you know there's an MSN community for wet pantyhose/tights? It's Pipi en collants (French language) but the pictures don't need translation!

[Phoenix]

To Holly.

I've come out to a number of my ex girlfreinds. The first was the one who realy got me hooked in the first place. She had an incredably small bladder and was always getting caught short, although she usually made to the loo in time images/smiles/icon_sad.gif However there was one memorable occasion when we where comming home from the pub one afternoon when she gasped, squatted down and began to piss herself images/smiles/icon_biggrin.gif Another time we where walking home, and she had to hold her bag in front on her so that she could press it against her crotch. By the time we got home she was almost wetting herself, and she ran straight to the loo. She was a long time in there, and when she came out she went upstairs and when she came down she had changed her clothes. I had not been seeing her for long at this point so I didn't want to push my look and ask her if she'd pissed herself - I recon that she did. If anyone wants I have a few other stories about this ex of mine.

I have also asked another girlfriend to piss herself for me, and she ended up wetting the bed for me one morning, but she was so embarressed afterwards that I never asked her to repeat it.

My current girlfriend is dead against it images/smiles/icon_sad.gif and so I have to content meself with reading the posts here.

Bye for now
Phoenix

[Val]

"Your best friend is one you can wet the bed with without minding". Sadly the lady concerned wasn't into it as a thrill - in fact for a long time she'd been conditioned to believe she wasn't into men - but there was this nurses' party in South-East London...

Hi Holly
I have tried to come out to my wife and let her know but her reaction has always been very negetive. The funny thing is I know her twin sister is into it. I used to see the results of her and hubby's antics and she is always talking about needing a pee or about when she had to go in an odd place. But mostly I share on the internet. tis a wonderful place. No judgements here just acceptance
love your stories
look forward to more

[sunchile]

I guess I'm one of the lucky ones. For half a lifetime, I remained "in the closet", fearing I was unique in the world with my little fixation.

I owe it to the Net that I first "came out". The early Patches Place made me fully aware that there are many, many people on this fair planet who share my enjoyment of w/s play, most emphatically of women wetting themselves.

I migrated to the mIRC channels and for months enjoyed a room with a great group of congenial urophiles, including our wonderful Skymouse who has opened so many vistas (no pun intended) for us here. Then, in the room, I met a fantastic, gorgeous young woman from Quebec who was also willing to connect in realtime.

Initially I was concerned that my lifetime of fantasies would prove distasteful or disgusting in realtime. Our weekend in a Boston Hilton hotel room quickly put these fears to rest. When she peed on my face while I was doing oral on her, I was in heaven! Later she led me into the bathroom where I watched in fascination while her delightful, dark purple shaved genital area released its golden flow. She later wet all over me during intercourse, and I realized that my years of fantasy were totally outshone by the realtime experience.

Not long after, I met an exquisitely beautiful young blonde who was immensely pleased
and flattered by my appreciation of her. Shortly before we entered the realm of sexuality together, we had a long conversation to share what we like sexually. At one point I admitted, "There is one area, a fetish, that I'm particularly sensitive about. It's my secret that I've only shared with one other person in my life."

Obviously, she teased and cajoled me until I finally admitted that I love to see women pee and wet. To my surprise, she responded with, "That's fine with me! It sounds like something I might like too!"

The next weekend, we had the use of a jewel-box little house with a small circular pool in the back yard. We turned it into a garden of eden. We both have an extensive background in Eastern mysticism and sexuality. Adding the watersports element was beyond heavenly. Over the course of the weekend, she wet her panties for me and peed all over me in any number of positions. I realized then that there was nothing shameful in this practice, it's purely delightful!

We were together for a total of almost two years, with a separation of about six months. During this time, I learned to truly revel in every aspect of watersports play, including quaffing down every drop from her sacred grotto, either directly or through panties.

A curious but very satisfying side-effect of our watersports began one night when the moonlight and the music and the sentiment was perfect. She was wearing a pair of lacy white panties I had given her, and I was performing oral on her through the panties. Suddenly, my face was flooded with moisture. "You're peeing!" I exclaimed.

"Nooo, that's not pee," she responded. "I female ejaculated! It's probably the most intense orgasm I've ever experienced in my life!"

After that, almost every time she came, she would flood us both, the bed, wherever we happened to be, with a gushing flow of liquid. She reported this to be exquisitely pleasant to her, and, believe me was a magnificent addition to our sex life.

I have admitted my fixation to a couple of other lovers since then. Both were basically only pee curious, but very willing to experiment, especially when they discovered the effect on me stimulated by enjoying their golden flow.

My only regret is having waited half a lifetime before sharing my fixation with lovers. For the rest of you, I enjoin you to let go of the silly Victorian taboos that hold us restrained. I was fortunate to discover that wet sex, for me, is the most intense expression of intimacy and sexuality, basically safe, and by no means dirty or shameful.

I look forward to interacting with you in the future on the message board. Happiest of wet trails to all of you!

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[Anonymous]

Hi Holly,
like a few of the other guys here, i have admited my fascination with women wetting to my current partner, but i haven't told her that i also get off on wetting myself. It's just so wonderful to know i'm not the only one. Since admitting to my partner my desires, ( which i brought up in the roundabout way of letting her see which sites(including this one)i was visiting on the net} she has on a couple of occasions wet her knickers for me, the first time while standing in the shower, and the second time while squatting over me on the bathroom floor. Needless to say, i could hardly wait for her to stop peeing before pulling her knickers aside, thrusting deeply up into her and orgasming explosively almost straight away. So although she says that the peeing does nothing for her, she was definitley aroused and ready for sex, maybe it was the thought of my own arousal that did it.

[Anonymous]

Those of you who read the Wetset board as well, will find the following there also, however, the question was too close to my thoughts at this time, not to post this.

I have posted this anonymously, and ask you to forgive me for that, I’m sure you will understand the reasons why, essentially I don’t want to spoil things as they are. Those friends I have made through this board, and corresponded with, will recognise me from the writing below.

After very many years of a single wankers life I met somebody. Things had been going very well, but they had not gone “ all the way” if you know what I mean. The lady was not a prude, but wanted to be certain things were right before continuing. Last week, we reached a watershed in the relationship, and decided that things were good, and we could commit to a physical relationship.

We both wanted this to be something a bit special and not just as uncontrolled animal coupling, so we went away for a romantic weekend. I booked up a hotel, and jumped at the option of a spa bath in the en-suite.

Three or four longs days went past, and eventually Friday evening arrived, and we disappeared from our normal lives, and headed away.

Of course right from the beginning of the relationship, I had been wondering if my new love would countenance the idea of knicker wetting, or if she would, like I would expect all “nice girls” to do, cry out in complete disgust and run a mile, never to be seen or heard of again.

Well the weekend went well. Very well, In fact I don’t think it could have gone any better! I discovered that I had stumbled upon a very highly sexed, and almost insatiable woman. Need I say more!

During the weekend my girlfriend ( and I’m not using any names, false or otherwise here) asked me if there was anything she could do for me. This she asked fairly early in the weekend, and I thought it was far to early to come out with the real show stopper here, so I said maybe there was but I didn’t want to come out with it yet.

Well, things had gone so well over the weekend, that lying in bed on Sunday morning, enjoying a post coital, ( and almost completely shagged out ) cuddle, I decided that I could let part of my kink out of the bag. I thought that if I came out with things in bits, and sort of built up to the finalle over time, ( maybe even months) it would be more acceptable some how.

So I broached the subject of the “ thing she could do” the response was warm, so I went on.

I admitted that I really liked one piece swimming costumes, saying that I thought they were some of the sexiest attire a woman could wear. I went on, for future reference, that if she wanted to dress up special for me, she could forget lacy, or sexy underwear, that a swim suit would do it for me every time!

This might have been a slightly tricky one, as we had been swimming together, and I had to admit that I had enjoyed the experiences more than she might have originally planned. I went on to say that I had to cover those feelings, as if I had let on, prior to our ( shall I use the phrase “ new intimacies” ) I would have scarred her away. She said that it might well have done, but now she was quite pleased.

Well, emboldened by the positive response I decided that maybe I could let out part two of the three part secret, so I went on to say that I also liked wet women, fully clothed wet women. In showers, baths, swimming pools lakes, anywhere where a woman took the chance to soak herself, and enjoy doing it, for the sake of doing it.

Again the response was positive, and my heart was beating up through my throat, as I considered broaching the clincher. Was I going to spoil things by expressing something that would gross out the vast majority of the population? Eventually, after much internal wrangling, I decided, in for a penny………. If this was going to really spoil things, better to get it over and done with.

Very haltingly, I began to explain, that before getting soaked in her clothes, I liked the idea of a woman peeing in her clothes. There I had said it, I battened down the metaphorical hatches and waited for the expected ( and understandable) tirade of disgust of both the idea, and me, for even thinking about it.

The tirade never came. A moment of silence followed whilst my girlfriend took in the information and considered it.

She said that it was not something she had considered before but was willing to try.

We talked for a little while, while I tried to explain that, for me, this was a very consenting act, I would never force her to do anything she didn’t want to do. This was not about humiliation, or incontinence, but a definite gratuitous sexual act.

She announced that she was on board with the idea, and was looking forward to trying it out. She would have put on her swimsuit, and tried it there and then ( I had explained that combining knicker wetting, and the swim suit thing came high up on the list ( if not right at the top!) but, time was by now getting on, and we had to go and get breakfast, and book out of the hotel.

We enjoyed the morning, and walked around the town, before travelling back home. We stopped of at my place, and spent the afternoon…………………….In bed. Eventually my girlfriend said she needed the toilet, and she had been saving it……..She said that she was a bit apprehensive, because much though she had peed in her swim suit before ( she admitted to often peeing in he shower at the swimming pool, after a swim) and had actually wet her panties before now ( this probably comes under the heading of a real accident, coming home absolutely desperate, and peeing before she could get to the loo) she had not done it like this ever before. I was like a dog with two dicks, just because of the sibgle fact that she was willing to give it a try.


She put on a swimsuit, and we went into the bathroom. I sat her on the toilet, and rubbed her through the crotch of the cozzie, As things were already pretty steamy she didn’t last long, and soon peed.

I took her into the shower, and drenched her in warm water before the pee had time to cool, and feel uncomfortable. I cleansed her with soap, as well as pleasuring her again ( and again, and again!)

We dried and went back to bed. Already planning the next time, shopping trips to buy suitable attire, scenes and scenarios, and the installation of a whirlpool bath, or hot tub.

Apart from other parts of me that are a bit sore ( I shall leave the exact locations to your imagination!) I have to admit to a slight “ face ache” where I haven’t stopped smiling since the weekend.

I reckon I must be amongst the luckiest bastards, if not the luckiest bastards using this board at this moment in time.

[hawkeye1]

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by &lt;Anon>:
I reckon I must be amongst the luckiest boys, if not the luckiest boy using this board at this moment in time.<hr></blockquote>

Dear Anon!

What a wonderful story! Congratulations! I hope that your relationship will go on as it begun!

Cheers

hawkeye

[Val]

Just a rider here - images/smiles/icon_biggrin.gif It's my Birthday-y-y! But it's (well) over one of the Big 0s images/smiles/icon_sad.gif - about 'female ejaculation'. Iv'e never been sure whether this refers to a vaginal spasm so wet & strong that it forces fluid out or to what I've only seen once (but then only manually would anyone be in a position to see it) of twin spurts from the glands (of Bartholin?) to either side of the labia minora. Ladies expound please?

[Anonymous]

Holly - - I should've read all this before writing my post, "Break it to my wife". If you read that, it can serve as my answer to your question. Sorry I didn't post it here instead. Oops. Short answer is, nope, I've never told anyone anything about this stuff and just being here now feels pretty scary. My wife had to make a sudden visit to her mom's place out of town for a couple of days, that's how I ended up here. I couldn't go with her. Well at least this is SOME therapy.

[Anonymous]

Wall- I am the outsider here. I truely have little desire for this. Your one comment though about 'her' seeing your desire hits it right on the head.

It is a wonderful thing to want to satisfy anothers desires. Some days the last thing I want to hear about is pee-ing. Being the wife that I am, I have never regretted fulfilling 'his' desire.

t

[quietpr]

How in the world has this conversation lasted 3 weeks and comprised 64 (now 65) posts???

Man!

[Frankie]

Hi holly Thanks images/smiles/icon_smile.gif Ive come out a little more since I started coming here thanks to you and everyone else!! images/smiles/icon_smile.gif images/smiles/icon_wink.gif This is a great place for sharing the interest we all have in common!! images/smiles/icon_biggrin.gif images/smiles/icon_wink.gif Just look at all the replys!!Like the energizer bunny....keeps on going ...going...going...and going!! he he images/smiles/icon_razz.gif Take care be wet!! Love Naughty Frankie xx images/smiles/icon_razz.gif

[Finesse]

To Val:

Happy birthday!
Did all candles fit in the cake images/smiles/icon_wink.gif

Hugs
Finesse

[Anonymous]

A belated Happy Birthday to Val.
To Holly if you want to come out to the World you could call The Guiness Book of records and apply for the longest thread in the History of the Internet (LOL)