Daughter's wetting

[Anonymous]

Hi Everyone,
I,ve only just found this site and think that it is terrific. I am 50 years old and have a 17 year old daughter. After she was born I developed a [problem. Every time I peed, no matter how long I waited and how much I wiped, as soon as I pulled up my panties a sqirt would come out. At first this was a mojor problem but over the years I began to like the damp feeling between my legs and now I even go before I need to just to make my panties damp again. I am not into wetting but really like letting my damp panties dry on me ready for the next sqirt. It saves on paper as there is no point in wiping. I do my daughter's washing for her and know that her panties are only normaly dirty - not peed in but on Saturday nights she likes to go out clubbing. She wears mimimal clothing like they do and has some cotton thongs that she only wears then. I have noticed that theses thongs always show signs of full flood wetting, sometimes up to three high-tide marks. I cant talk to her about it but can anyone tell my if this is normal at clubs and why? Do they do it because the toilets are full or do they do it on the floor while they are dancing.
Love all your stories - maybe I will try a wetting to see what it feels like.

[Larry Lamb]

Well, as someone who partakes in the odd bit of bopping to a dance beat, I would say that it is possible that the queues are too long, but that is unlikely to deter her, and it is possible she wets herself whilst dancing, though that is not normal in the sense that it is not a widely followed practice, so I would conclude two things:

1. It is not wee, but sweat - the clubs can get hot and sweaty, especially if the DJ is good and you love to dance. So possibly, she has just sweated a lot (and we know that crotches can get sweaty don't we!?!?) and that is staining her underwear.

2. She is wetting herself, either through a weak bladder (but then you would expect find stains on her clothes on other days as well) or because she can't be bothered to goto the loo or she enjoys the feeling (like you yourself do now!)

I would be careful about raising the issue with her in case it embarrasses her, and if she does not seem stressed about it, maybe you should just observe and not bring the matter to her attention. However, if you have a good and open relationship with her, you could ask what the causes are - maybe pretend that you think it is sweat and see if she says otherwise...

Hope this helps...

[Holder]

Hi Sandy

Interesting story. I'd say that if she was into wetting, then there would have been signs before now. If not, then I doubt she would wet deliberately just because she was in a club.

In the same way, if these were accidents, then these wouldn't be the first, and the most likely time to have them would be on the way home, in which case I would expect only one "high-tide" mark.

I'd say that the moisture is either sweat or from being turned on by the music, atmosphere and guys snogging her!

Just my thoughts, which being a guy, could be rubbish of course

Regards

Gary (UK)
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If you are interested in what is going on the best time to ask is when she gets back from clubbing.
Maybe get up when you hear her come home, ask casually how her evening went.
The best way to ask is if she charges into the loo when she gets home then you could ask "are there no loos at the club.
She will likely say they are dirty, busy or she is too busy having fun to think of going whilst out
You could say "Oh to be young and have a bladder like a camel "
She may respond that it has its limmits and tell you that sometimes she goes beyond them.
Likely if she is in a merry frame of mind from her evening out she would be the most receptive to talk about it.
In the scheme of things her underwear is no biggy she is not coming home stoned etc so I would not make too big an issue over it.
Likely she pushes her limmits to long and leaks a little like most people .The three tide marks could be perspiration as the previous responder said . It could be one leak and thongs do not take much to soak and the soluble sustances in the material from her the laundry etc seperating like in a titration to make a number of water marks!In one damping!

[Matt]

For what it's worth, I've know of people who would never wet themselves under any circumstances.... Apart from whilst they are clubbing!

In the UK, a night club which houses 10,000 people might only have about 15 stalls!!! The Ritz in Manchester, just for example. I don't understand why women bother to go there... who, in their right mind, would pay £5 to spend the night in a queue for the ladies????

Anyhow, some of my friends used to pee on the dance floor. Not very often, mind, but they did do it. I can see three advantages:

1. No queue!
2. Saves time
3. Nobody would take any notice because the dance floors are covered in spilt beer anyway!!!

The other thing is that they wear thin underwear (due to club being hot) and thin, short dresses/skirts. Such material will dry out in seconds and doesn't even look wet when it actually is.

Well, the only other thing which I can think to say at the moment is that it probably is slightly more common than people would actually think. Nightclub toilets are normally pretty awful places - I've seen women trying to use the mens toilets before now (women wearing clothes that would stain badly, that is!!!)!!!!!

Of course, there is always the idea that maybe she does like it!!!

Regards,

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