please help with wet knickers

I would worry that you are too young to be on this board

[Anonymous]

im 18 it says thats old enough

[Big J]

y don't u e-mail me i will give you some tips
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[Anonymous]

I can really sympathize with you. It IS hard for us gals to really relax and go when our mind has been trained not to. You have the added pressure of possibly being caught and maybe the fear of punishment. If you work on those two problems it will help you relax. The only other thing I can suggest is that you drink a lot and then wait until you are desperately needing to pee. Then go sit on the toilet with your panties on (lock the door so you don't have to worry about someone seeing you). Eventually you won't be able to hold it any longer and will HAVE to pee. When you do pee, try to relax, try to feel what muscles are relaxing, and of course try to enjoy the feeling. The reward of the good feeling will be a positive reinforcement to what you are doing. You may have to close your eyes through much or all of it at first, maybe even imagining you don't have your pantie on (just going for a normal pee). That helped me a lot at first. Once it starts flowing, open your eyes and take a look! Sometimes seeing it may cause you to contract your muscles and stop the flow. Feel what muscles caused that and then try to consciously relax them. You'll get it in time -- and eventually it won't take so much effort. Don't worry, this is a common "problem" for us gals at first. Even I struggle with this in some situations. I have only just recently been able to pee while standing, for example.

PissyMrs@hotmail.com

[barry155]

Hello Ellen

Welcome here to you

If PissyMrs suggestion did not do the trick even when waiting to go until absolutely bursting - try this

drink several glasses of water (it is very good for you to drink lots of water anyway) before you shower - starting an hour before or so

make sure you are bursting before your shower so that you are either about to lose it or if you are not one of those that do lose it but can hold on till it comes out yuor eyeballs like some on this board - then till it hurts - then take your shower

the shower is a neutral place - it is wet and clean and a place where you can relax

just spread your legs under the shower and close eyes in the hot water and relax until you let go.....

that will be the first small step and you can built from there - maybe next time wear apnties into the shower

then when you've got that --- try going in the shower BEFORE you turn the water on images/smiles/icon_wink.gif

then you should be able to make the transition to whereever you want to be when you do it as you have learned to relax those muscles


TIP: IF EVEN SHOWER DOES NOT WORK WHILE BURSTING AND LEGS SPREAD - TURN IT ON COLD - I'D BE AMAZED IF THAT DID NOT OPEN THE FLOODGATES!

[Larry Lamb]

I would suggest first that you wait for a day/evening when you know your parents will be out for a few hours and that you don't therefore have the distraction of them bothering youu.

Then yes, drink lots of fluid to make sure you have the urge to go, and then when the urge is very strong, before going to sit on the loo, just carry on as normal but try letting a little spuurt out - if you go sit on the loo, the desire and tension might make it harder not easier to go - in other words, don't get too hyped up about it, try and see it as something to try but not to make a big deal of.

Once you feel really desperate, go sit on the loo and try weeing, with knickers off perhaps and then as you start, whip them back up and continue weeing.

Perhaps try sitting in the bath and reading and just let bits go, try various things and see what works for you.

Final point - ensure you have time to clean up after so that you don't have to worry about getting caught in the act by anyone.

And enjoy - it really is a fantastic feeling (and sight) and I hope you get what you want out of it.

Feel free to let us all know how it went, too!!


(Failing all that, if you live in or near London, come round mine and I'll watch you with no distractions!!!! j/k.)

[Anonymous]

i cant belive ive found this,i thought i was the only one,im still fairly young,and still live with my parents,but i want to wet my knickers ,i thought i was strange,i have tried to pluck up the courage but cant ,i have tried sitting on thr toilet with my knickers on but i cant go,i really want to wet my knickers but my parents would go mad if they found out,i cant see im dooing any harm,i would be happy to do my own washing,i would never want my dad to know but my mum might talk to me,please can someone tell me the best way to try this,if i spend to long in the bathroom trying,someone notices and calles me,where can i try,i would really like some help, thanks ellen

[wetgirlie]

Hi Ellen,

I have always known that I wanted to wet my knickers but had the same problem as you. When I was at home I overcame the fear of my parents finding out by wetting my knickers whilst standing in the bath. Then I sat in the bath with them on. Then I explained to my mum that I had absent mindedly forgot to take my knickers off before I got in the bath. Wouldn't want to do it that way too often, but it worked a couple of times for me.

The other advice I can give is get yourself a place of your own and then you pee to hearts content.

Good luck and I'm sure that you find the right way for you in the end. x

[Finesse]

Hi Ellen.

About living at home and wetting, it is not so hard. First of all, wet when the family is out. It could be a little difficult if you have siblings, but many times I guess thay are out or at their friends, otherwise I think you will get opportunities. It is no fun not being able to wet whenever you want but when school is finished and you got a job, an own place is waiting!

Then if you want to wet your panties only, then just do it in the shower. After you have showered it depends on what you will usually do. Sometimes I put on my clean clothes in the bathroom and sometimes I just wrap my towel around me and goes to my room and change in there.

So when I wet my panties, I always put them on again after I showered and rinsed them out, wraps the towel around me and walks to my room with the panties on under the towel and change and hide them when I get to my room. It is really simple, you cant fail!

I have done that since I was about 12 and have never been caught!

But to wet in pants is much more difficult images/smiles/icon_sad.gif

Hugs
Finesse

[parkvilla]

Hi there.

I first started by wetting my pants in bed (age approx 12)on purpose before going to sleep, and having my first orgasm doing this as well. I would wear pants/shorts and T-shirt PJ's and my parents knew I wet the bed, but seemed to accept it as sort of "accidents that happen". They did not know I did it on purpose.

When I was a bit older, I actually stopped wetting the bed because I knew at some point they'd talk about it to other parents and I definitely didn't want any of my freinds to know! I did however once confide in a girl cousin, who also admitted she liked to wet her pants whilst in bed when she stayed with us once.

The only time I could wet my pants was, as others have suggested when the house was empty - when they'd gone out on an evening, or if I was off school for any reason. I used to wear a pair of school trousers cut off as shorts and wet them, hiding them under the bed! Eventually I just threw all the smelly stuff away so no-one would find out and just thought about pants wetting with the girl of my dreams.

If you get an evening alone, you could always try doing it outside in the garden. The other trick is to time it whilst simultaneously offering to do a bit of washing - you can then chuck the lot in the washer without leaving wet pants around!

Some different thoughts:

experiment with liquids - everyone has a special drink which makes them pee more readily - and with quantities: a smaller quantity drunk quickly can often be more effective than a larger volume over a longer period (incidentally, lemon tea does it for me. Two cups of that and I'm on borrowed time!) and then try to keep away from the bathroom for the longest - and I do mean the longest - possible time!

By all means plan this so no-one is home, but such ploys as deliberately locking the front door so it is difficult to get inside, or sticking to condusive tasks like washing up are more likely to bring you to crisis point. The whole thing is psychological, after all, and frustration is a powerful weapon. Arrange emergency places you can let go where it is easy to clean up, like the tiled hallway, the kitchen floor, and aim to avoid those fruitless vigils by the toilet bowl.

Lastly, I'm sure you know how to physically start yourself peeing, and that can be done as easily with knickers on as knickers off. But if even that doesn't work there's always the old hand in blood-temperature water trick. No, not just dipping your hand in the water - get a palm-full and clutch it to the crotch of your knickers!

Anyway, there's some thoughts!

[WD12]

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[goldenboy]

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