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BigJake
Mon, 14 Nov 05, 12:27 AM
Hey gang,
I've been absent from this board for months now. I've missed everyone and feel bad for avoiding this. I recently moved to a new state in my 1st house, got a new job, and now have a WONDERFUL girlfriend. So you can see why I've been busy and preoccupied. Now that I am working on getting a puppy, free time will soon be a thing of the past.

Anyway, I wanted to talk about my girlfriend. She is the love of my life, best thing to happen to me and we've been dating for over 3 months now. About 1 month into the relationship we were lying in bed and she leaned over and asked me "Do you have any fetishes?" I was shocked and cornered, after a short guessing game she got it out of me. Keep in mind, we are both young and are not so experienced sexually as most people our age (yes I'm talking about that 'V' word). I certainly didn't expect this topic to come up so early in our relationship, especially not before we transgressed to other aspects of affection.

As our relationship grew, so did her curiosity about my fetish. She is VERY open and always ready to explore. (side note: she never 'swallowed' before meeting me...she is a man's dream!) Last weekend we took it a little further; to let her understand me a little more I showed her some of Sky's videos (thanks man!) on my PC. I was embarrased as all hell! She wasn't, it just intriged her more and she did not find it gross or wierd. I didn't pursue much more, I am too shy to ask for too much and I like to take things slow.

This weekend were were apart for the 1st time since we met (different obligations, she is away at college). The other night she was at a 'Kegger' and while online for the toilet, she called me. She said how much she had to pee and had been waiting for some time. Then she took me (via phone) into the bathroom to share the experience! It was pretty nice hearing this and being a part of her desperation while being alone on a Friday night, you can guess where it went from there! She has also started to tell me about times in the past that she almost wet herself from laughter or desperation and is not shy to share such things. This from a sweet woman that was shy to go to the bathroom around me, now she makes sure NOT to turn the fan on and leave the door open for me.

It's amazing to find such a pretty woman, so intelligent, and think so much like me willing to try something SO new for my benefit. I am a very lucky man and can't wait to see where it goes from here. I will be sure to keep you folks updated as things progress. Later all.

PS - Sky, I miss you and the site too...you can see I have a lot of financial obligations so I am saving my money; but you can bet that I'll return in due time (maybe my girlfriend will help put in for a renewel :-)

GregSmith85
Mon, 14 Nov 05, 12:40 AM
That is very nice to hear Jake, I am very happy for you :)

BigJake
Tue, 29 Nov 05, 1:07 AM
One step at a time...this weekend I got a little more daring. After we finished fooling around, my girlfriend had to do her typical post-makeout pee. Embarrassed, I asked her if it would be OK to watch this time. Lying next to me in bed, she began to explain that she can't go unless her legs are closed, has to etc. etc. etc. I knew she'd be shy, so I told her it isn't necessary (it really wasn't, I was just curious). She was OK with it, but just had to delay and build up to it.

We went into the bathroom and she sat down. After a few giggles, she looked up at me with her gorgeous hazel eyes. Before she could say a word, I leaned in to kiss her lips. As my lips met hers I heard a gentle stream falling into the toilet. She smiled and told me my fetish isn't weird and whenever I want her to do anything, I should just ask! I love her so much, I truly found the girl of my dreams.

SNIFFER17
Tue, 29 Nov 05, 5:19 AM
Normally, I would say that I am EXTREMELY jealous of your good find, BigJake....

However - after reading your few posts about this young lady and seeing how willing to learn she is, my only thoughts are those of GOOD LUCK.........

Treat her like the princess she seems to be. ;)

Indigo
Tue, 29 Nov 05, 8:15 PM
Amen to that.

And make sure you reciprocate, if she should turn out to have any - ah - non-mainstream-vanilla desires / requirements.

bspider
Wed, 30 Nov 05, 1:47 AM
And make sure you reciprocate, if she should turn out to have any - ah - non-mainstream-vanilla desires / requirements.Not forgetting, ask if she's wanting anything. But I'm guessing you didn't need the reminder, yes? ;)

Boris

BigJake
Thu, 1 Dec 05, 2:35 AM
Communication IS key in a good relationship! Thanks for your concern, all. I think she wants a fetish like mine to have a give/take thing, but I'm the 'wierd' one :) I see a fetish (especially our shared fetish on this board) just as a means of expressing affection in more ways than kissing/sex/etc. We are still exploring our love and I'm sure I'll hit on some not so vanilla desires in her (aside from biting her arms and licking her nipples). It's so much fun exploring these things I've never fully experienced before...all the more reason I am in no rush to move to the fetish level just yet. I think that should even come after sex...again, no rush!
~Jake
PS - She doesn't mind my sharing this info, it flatters her. 'Sides, she is taking a Sex Psychology course and had to write a paper on something she never did sexually before. She wanted to explore my fetish, but I simply wasn't ready just yet. She went with another topic and I was happy to partake ;)